Dating as a christian woman
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Should Christians use online dating services? Yes, and with gusto! Online dating doesn't correct the well-documented imbalance of devout Christian women abundant supply to like-hearted men a paucitybut it at least widens the net for Christians seeking partners. It also reduces the need to choose between meaningful service in a region where pickings are slim, and work that may be further from one's calling in a more populated area. Along with these benefits, online dating as a christian woman does raise new dangers: a creep—a violent one, even—may be lurking behind the next click; the process over-represents certain features of a person facial appearance, for starters ; and it requires an investment of funds that perhaps could be better spent elsewhere. It would be foolish, however, to preserve the dating practices of an earlier era, even as an attempt to avoid these dangers. For instance, I'd never recommend that a modern woman do as I did. In the mid-1990s, when I was seeing the man who became my husband, we talked on landline phones late at night when rates dropped from 25 cents per minute to 10 centssent just a handful of e-mails seemed impersonaland never texted weren't pagers mostly just for drug dealers back then? We wrote letters, too. And sent them via postal mail! These archaic behaviors suited the olden days, but some of them seemed novel even to the generation before mine. Like work, house construction, and child-rearing, dating is a cultural practice that humans reinvent and adapt to different.
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